Thursday, November 24, 2011

The Drama Brat Queeny

I'm looking into the online dictionary, finding this word called "Brat" sounds kinda kinky, really eager to know as a friend of mine who used to be called **** he has this little story about a girl who he used to know and he called this girl a brat and am so curious to know what is this brat thingy is about? well, he gave me lots of definitions, names and many silly name to proven this brat means well, here is what i found on the online dictionary: A Child, especialy a spoiled or ill-mannered one and i found this as well,"Annoying, Spoilt Child" is this kinda like the draggy drama queen concept? my friend says, YES! erm...sounds scary, but i would like to know more about this BRAT type of person. Surprisingly, my friend has summary all this about brat but to my thinking, this so called Brat girl or Drama queen girl is all about attention that she needed from others as she lives in that world. I wonder why this people being so overwhelming in such away there crave for attention (attention seeker). Well, if this girl is beautiful and pretty maybe she needs to prove that she's pretty, if she not pretty then she needs attention more than any of the pretty and beautiful girls needed. But why all the brat girl is always be the beautiful, pretty, sexy and hot girl? 

Curious to know bout it but I've doing some serve that most of the guys says, this kinda women or girls, they need the most attention by the guy so that they are protected. Means, wherever this Brat lil queen go, they will have the security means, publicity figure (oh! that guy i know him!) go to him and joining him at the big crowd and many of the guy friends will notice that lil brat queen! (SEE the game?) some of the guy did mention also, this lil brat girl sometimes would stand out and being brat such as, "you know am the hottest girl in the class, in the office etc.." sometimes, the conversation maybe this way, "many guys wanted to marry me..." (this is when the girl try to pull the trigger and selling herself to the men telling that please take me as ur girl and u will marry me one day) lol...sometimes, "you know, i know this guys...he like me, but i don't like him.." (so annoying... :( well, this game is always been played again and again by the those brat bitches out there..but why do they act that way? Need a security in life? perhaps, this is what i have to say: Played game with people heart is like you are gambling yourself into a dead sea. Once you've played, you will never end the game cause what u've given is what you will get back in the end. Why have to burden yourself with judging peoples heart and feelings through wards you? We are human being, never would be perfect in life. 
We tend to make mistakes and from that we learn to be someone better..why we have to choose? choosing to live with a better person is good but don't make them an option if you already have the good ones in front of u. Treasure them..The most frustrated issues is where there is an option while you have to choose between the A and B (to let go the person and the person have to sacrifice who to let go) well, this is hard. Sometimes this lil brat queen love to play this kinda game...a game that used to be the favorite one is to choose! Its terrible when this little brat queen is trying to prove her choice is proven the perfect one! Well, god always knows what's best in your life. Don't fools those who loves you with an eye shut by just saying u're not good enuf for me...who are you to say that? Well, everyone has a mouth to say what they wanted to say to the one who they like or dislikes..but every human being is given a heart to feel so whatever you said and do ,it reflects back what act u do to them...it hurts, so please ensure to be careful in what u do..or else everyone slip away from you. Sorry seems to be the hardest word. YES! indeed it is, so be in their shoes while you try to make things worst. 

But then again, don't play around on hearts. Once it broke it couldn't be mend. It takes a lot of time to fix it. Maybe it couldn't be fix anymore...If a guy or a girl loves you so much do give them a chances to prove their love their attention through wards you. What about if you don't love him or her? we never know what heart might come after that...am right? God knows best...He sent you him/her for a reason. For what reason? we never know..but if you doesn't like him/her..please ensure that you ready to tell him the truth that you couldn't like or love him because you don't have the heart on him/her. Don't put him/her on high hope as this will condemn him/her soul. This is not good. Don't keep it too long if you know you gonna hurt him/her. So, please practice this habits in a any of relationship...do in a healthy way so that no one get hurts. 
I saw many friends, and even me sometimes getting the heartbreaks thingy. It's tough! at some point, we wish to be alone and cry all day to comfort our self.  if this makes us better. Ya! its proven, crying makes us feel relieve. It's gonna takes few months or the fastest is 2 weeks to forget what had happen...sometimes we do need a company by our close friends just to share our sadness and sorrow. To make ourselves at ease.

When in a relationship, many happy returns, joy, and sometimes sad tragedy happens. Well, that's what mean to be in love life. Nothing is perfect, Even, husband and wife also argue and quarrel. :) What's hurts more, if him/her can't give full commitment once in relationship. This is a normal issues for me..once him/her in a career many circumstances outsource and many difficulties come and this makes the relationship aren't stable. Don't put your career and your relationship issues at the same time. THAT's terribly BAD! i've got a quote for these: Your good in everything you do but when comes to relationship, you're BAD! too bad for that...well, i for seen this matters as you will see the career people will have their late marriage. its proven! well, some are not. But most of them are! 
Next, is sincerity-Being in any relationship. friends, relative,family, work & etc..anything needs sincerity. That's the key of success! Being honest is the number one that will proven you will locked your heart and being the one that people will adore..Sometimes those brat bitches, they will be so sincere like "i sleep with this guy last night, and you know what i get? he promise to buy me GTI goft! (Volkswagen car) well...that's honest! but this lil brat honest is far away honest...this is the other topics! lol..
Honest means: not given to lying, cheating,stealing etc..trustworthy. Not False or misleading or genuine, Just or fair honest wages.
that's the definition of honest. What about sincerity?  
Sincerity means: in one's heart of heart (i emphasizes on this) 
In the deepest, innermost recesses of one's heart, in one's most private and pure thoughts or feelings. The first heart in this expression means "core" and the second heart means "seat of feeling, understanding and thought". Although the corrupted heart of heart  is frequently heard, the original expression as it appeared in Hamlet is heart of heart. 
Give me that man
That is not passion’s slave, and I will wear him
In my heart’s core—aye, in my heart of heart,
As I do thee. 
Well, sincerity means alot! very deepest more to heart and feelings. Well the meaning of honest and sincerity is not the same. 
In love, sincerity is the first to come then being honest with one another. That is called love for eternity. :) 
Well, dear little brat girl out there, stop chasing and fool the guys heart.. 
Stop the drama, stop being fancy pretty and being so drama drag queen (its so boring ok) Stop having an option in life..where you have to choose which one is suitable for you. 
You're no god..remember, what you've done to people around you, will get back CASH for that. So make sure you don't have any debt before god give you back what you've done...

Not all are bad not all like the "sweet taker guy" Don't worry for anything that would come...People will hate you, rate you, break you and shake you. How strong you stand is what makes you. So no need for revenge for that. Those who hurt you will eventually screw themselves up. And if you're lucky, God will let you watch it...just remember what goes around, comes around.
Till then, Have a pleasant day... :O 

Hugs & kisses, 
Arzrin Ein

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